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 Steven Costello was born in Ireland on 

September 12, 1994.

And soared to the heavens

On August 31, 2004,

at the tender age

of nine.





 




 

 

 














 He Only Took My Hand

~author unknown~

Last night while I was trying to sleep,
My son's voice I did hear
I opened my eyes and looked around,
But he did not appear.

He said, "Mom, you've got to listen,
You've got to understand
God didn't take me from you, mom,
He only took my hand.

When I called out in pain that night,
The instant that I died,
He reached down and took my hand,
And pulled me to His side.

He pulled me up and saved me
From the misery and the pain,
My body was hurt so badly,
I could never be the same.

My search is really over now,
I've found happiness within,
All the answers to my empty dreams
All all that might have been.

I love you all and miss you so,
And I'll always be nearby.
My body's gone forever,
But my spirit will never die.
And so you must all go on now,
Live one day at a time.
Just understand ~
God didn't take me from you
He only took my hand.


"When God closes up one door,

He opens up

another."


 

 

I may never see tomorrow;
there's no written guarantee
And things that happened yesterday
Belong to history.

I cannot predict the future
I cannot change the past
I have just the present moments
I must treat them as my last.
I must use this moment wisely
For it soon will pass away
And be lost forever
As part of yesterday.

I must exercise compassion
Help the fallen to their feet
Be a friend unto the friendless
Make an empty life complete.

The unkind things I do today
May never be undone
And friendships that I fail to win
May nevermore be won.

I may not have another chance
On bended knee to pray
And I thank God with a humble heart
For giving me this day.



~Author Unknown~


MY SON

On the day God took you
I thought I would die
I wondered where the time went,
I asked a lot of whys.

With people all around me
I felt alone inside
From all their words of comfort,
I couldn't seem to hide.

I thought I might be dreaming
That I'd wake and find you here,
I thought "This can't be happening,"
As I wiped another tear.

On the day that you were laid to rest
My heart broke yet again,
I wondered if the pain would end
But mostly, I wondered when.

It's hard to be without you
At times the days seem long,
Sometimes I just sit crying,
When there's nothing really wrong.

I wish we'd had more time,
Before your life was done.
I hope you're resting peacefully,
My precious one,
My Son.

 I thought missing you
was only for today.
I thought that
needing you would just
go away.

Why do I see you in
everything I do?

Why does the sunshine
remind me
of you?






 

Steven is a sweet child of God.
He was very quiet and never complained once
during the time he was ill and suffering from
the devastating effects of a brain tumor.
He was extremely courageous
and just got on with it




 He loved giving BIG hugs and BIG kisses
just as much as we loved receiving them,
and he liked to pass the time away by
watching the MTV Music Channel
or playing video games.



He and his sister, Tara, embraced a
loving bond that only
siblings can share.

 

If you met Steven only once, you will never
forget his sweet smile & spirit. 
He will continue to live in our
hearts forever.


Many people have been touched
not only by his passing,
but by the courageous
battle he fought
against

Childhood Cancer.





Please light a candle and leave

any memories you may have of

 "Steven."

 Each memory will become

a treasure for us.
 

 





When your light goes out upon this earth,
I'll look up to the sky;
It will twinkle there in a million stars,
Like it did here in your eyes.

And when your flame no longer burns,
To warm my every day;
I will bask in the warmth of your memory,
That will never go away.

Then when your laughter no longer rings,
I'll listen deep within;
For it will be the sweetest gift
'Twas left here by my son
And  precious friend;

So rest in peace in the arms of
God,
My precious, faithful son;
You'll be in the joy of each memory,
Long after your journey on earth is done.




"Heaven is like falling asleep somewhere,
 and
waking up to find yourself
in your own bed." 


- Peter Marshall 

"We are each of us Angels with only one wing ~

The only way we can fly is by embracing

one another."

 

 

 

 

Many people are not aware of this, but
Steven
was left on Catherine's doorstep when he was
just a few days old.


In her exquisite warmth & love, she
took him in,
loving and nurturing  him as though
he was her
very own child.


Oceans of love,

   Marla

mom to Milo

Her Baby’s Face

The hand of The Almighty
Calms the raging sea,
The watchful eye of the Shepard
Guards His flock of sheep
The silken lips of HIS mother
Caress her baby’s face
And SHE will be delivered
By
His Amazing grace


Copyright by
m.k. williamson
 


     


 





Steven - 3 months old


Steven @ Christmas


      

 

 

 



Steven loved to listen to music and watch

The MTV channel.




"The stars are the faces of our children
 smiling down on us."










Steven's nephew, Oisin







Steven's neice, Abbie

Forever in our hearts
Forever missed
Forever remembered
Forever leaving memories,
And especially,

Forever Loved.

We come to honor our children
Who have died before their time
It matters not why they left us
Whether accident or design

We just know we miss them
Our hearts are no longer whole
As, Our babies left us
They took pieces of our souls

We can draw upon our memories
And, bring their face to mind
Thinking of our missing them
Do they miss us all in kind


So, light a candle for them
Say their name and dates out loud
Our voices will reach upward
As the flames shine through the clouds


Feel their presence near you
The moving air a sigh
They wait for us to join them
In the Heavens - beyond the sky

 

Steven & Nicole



Steven, Raymond & Tara 
In Portugal


Steven at his sister Lindsay's wedding - 2003

 

I LOVE AND MISS YOU

SO MUCH, MY SWEET MUM.

Thank you for all the ways you loved

and embraced me.

I am waiting with open

arms to see you,

and all of my family

.~ Steven ~

 


Me, my dad, and Tara



Me & my beautiful mum


 



I know that
God smiles down on you
everyday, Catherine.
I wish there were more people
in this world that
so selflessily give of themselves to others.
What a better place this
world would be.

I am so blessed by your friendship.

Oceans of love,

marla

 

 

 


 

 



Tributes and Condolences
Happy Birthday Steven!   / Carol Pizzi (Angel Debbie's Mom )
Thinking of You   / Diane Kayser
I just visted with your precious Steven and wanted you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. 
You are in my thoughts and prayers   / Angie Walters
What a beautiful memorial for your handsome Steven.  I pray that the days are gentle to you, as you remember your precious son.
Love and hugs,
Angie
Dustin's mom
www.dustinhamilton.com
I know your pain...   / Dottie Angel Mom To Matthew Hagan ^i^ (Visitor)
A butterfly to remind you that youor son is everywhere you look, sending you little rememberances in the cmallest of things...Butterflies and flowers go together like mothers and their children. God sent me this little reminder of all the beauty...  Continue >>
praying for you   / Shirley Baer (none)
I am so sorry for the loss of your precious son Steven...He is such a cute little guy...Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers during his birthday and heaven dates falling so closely together...Luv
An Angel in Heaven  / Melissa Bither (Someone passing by )    Read >>
Happy Birthday Steven!  / Carol Pizzi (Angel Debbie's Mom )    Read >>
Happy Birthday Steven!  / Melissa Eiler (Visitor~Daughter of Irwin & Renee Eiler )    Read >>
In Honor of Steven  / Judy, Mom To Angel Jameie-leigh Britt (an angel mom )    Read >>
STEVEN / Emma Kelly (friend)    Read >>
A Poem for You, Catherine, with Love . . .  / Marla Williamson Milo's Mom (Angel Friend )    Read >>
And For My Family too!!  / To My MOM .. .. .. From Steven .. .. ..     Read >>
A Poem for Catherine  / Marla Williamson Milo's Mom (A Forever Friend )    Read >>
I cannot imagine the pain of loosing one so young.  / Ty's Mom     Read >>
Missing you  / Catherinr Costello (mum)    Read >>
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My angel  

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memories  

Memories of you will be with us for ever and memories of you Steven are very very special

My beautiful son  
I miss you so much  Steven but I am so glad to have spent  9 3/4 years with you .we are better people for having known you      You truely were special love you so much.  Mumxxx
for steven  
To day Febuary 19 a beautiful granite seat in memory of you steven went up in springfield cemetery .   A place your friends can go and remember you .I  love  and miss you so much Stevenxxxxx
from mum  

darling steven this is the beginning of our first year without you.i miss you so much and i hope you are happy where you are lindsay had her baby his name is scott christopher (after you) jeff and lindas baby is due in april  maybe it will be a little girl  good night for now hon love you so very much

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Steven age 3 months
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